Wednesday, July 15, 2009

A Real Friend

I have been thinking since I've encountered this so many times and seen it done by others.

It is easy for people to grieve with a grieving friend or cry with that person when life is miserable. They say multiple of advices and blah blah blah. BUT when things get beautiful and happy, they're gone. They just nod and say "OK" and you can never see them happy for you. That is one of the saddest things I've encountered and noticed. It's a sad truth.

Real friendship is being there when things get better for our friends even if our lives are not that great.

That made me ponder. So I give you something to ponder about now.

I'm happy and I hope a real friend will celebrate with me.

Do I sound like I'm venting? hehehe! Nope. I just want to celebrate life. Isn't that what real friendship is all about? Celebrating the ups and downs of LIFE.

Hope all is so WELL with you in GOD! OUR BEAUTIFUL GOD WHO DESERVES ALL THE GLORY FOR ALL OUR SUCCESSES IN LIFE!

ALL THE GLORY BELONGS TO GOD ALONE!!! ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE WITH GOD!!!

P.U.S.H.

CELEBRATE LIFE! GOD BLESS YOU ABUNDANTLY! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH YOU - NO MATTER WHAT!

When you feel GOD's love, OVERFLOW!

Make an impact. Make a difference. Make a ripple. Tip the scale. Be a blessing. Be different.

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Ah, I have been learning somewhat about this and it's good that you posted this. Thanks!! Have a blessed day! Oh and if you will check my latest post. I love you sister in Jesus!!!!! :D

kim said...

I remembered a famous quote about friendship:

"a real friend is someone who walks in when all the world walks out"...

And yes i need to ponder on the thought you mentioned and i guess it's true.

Some are so concern about your misfortunes or failures or pains, but not on your success or happiness. Why so? Because people only cares about their success not the success or happiness of others. This is selfishness but in our old nature, we're like this. We don't really care. We don't enjoy partying with happy people especially when you feel like you are less blessed. Sometimes its the issue of who's the happiest and who's more successful. It's being compared. And who wanted to be compared? I don't like haha.

But as i became blessed to have found my reason for living, Jesus, i came to realized being happy or being sad - it all allowed by God to test us and mold us...it's complete yummy thing. A experience that's worth bearing.

Friends will not always be there. There are friends who sticks closer like a brother, but there are friends who brothers closer than a stick. (now you're pondering hehe)

Omah's Helping Hands said...

I am rejoicing with you! Friendships can at times be tough, but the most important friendship we need dwell on is our friendship with God. He is the "only" friend we truly need.
That doesn't mean that we don't need human friendships, as those are what helps us through and hold tight to the strength and love of the Mighty Loving God.
Bless you dear sweet sister and friend in Christ. I've missed you and love you. Thanks for the e-mail! It made my day. :)

Anonymous said...

I celebrate and rejoice with you! Hallelujah and praise the Lord! He is truly wonderful and worthy to be praised! Live life to the fullest! Enjoy and no matter what happens be happy in the glory of the Lord! AMEN!!!!!!!!!!

Just Be Real said...

Grat post. Thanks for sharing!!

Karen said...

Rejoicing with you, also.....